- Written by Multibase Services
- Published: 22 Oct 2019
After the big climax, when you’re relishing in the aftermath endorphins of a fun romp with your girlfriend and she seems to be restlessly moving next to you, you might wonder: Was it as good for her as it was for you? Satisfying your partner is important for both men and women, but men especially define their own egos on how happy they make the woman they love. And not just with gestures and gifts, but with pleasure, too.
Being satisfied in bed truly means that your needs, your desires and your joy is being prioritized feel like they’re being taken care of, and knowing that your woman see you in that special light will make your sexual experience heightened and happier, too.
kHere, experts dish on how to decode the signs that your woman is satisfied sexually:
What Does "Sexually Satisfied" Mean?
You might think that consistent orgasms are a huge indicator of a happy partner who looks forward to rolling around in the bed with you, but that’s not always the case. Just like there are many parts to the puzzle when it comes to maintaining strong, solid communication with your lady, there are many factors that contribute to her satisfaction level in the buff, too.
As sex expert and commentator, Coleen Singer explains, “First and foremost, it means that you are giving her the kind of sexual pleasure she desires. It also indicates that she appreciates you taking the time and focus to do the things that you know drive her wild in bed.”
The keyword here is time: figuring out what touches, kisses, words, movements, consistency and rhythm makes her happy will be an education that evolves the longer you’re together and the more things you try in bed. The dedication to the time it takes to make her moan and be happier than she’s ever been before is something she’ll definitely take note of. And hey, might even encourage her to return the favor for you, too.
Dr. Dawn Michael, a clinical sexologist relationship expert also adds that satisfying a woman in bed means that you understand her intimate, unique details and that she feels like you make it a priority to get her to her maximum level of pleasure.
Why Is Satisfying Your Partner Important?
For every relationship, no matter how long you’ve been together, how often you have sex or how many things you’ve been through, there are some fundamentals must-haves to keep your love strong and healthy. In addition to communicating effectively and honestly, supporting one another’s goals, opinions and perspectives, respecting each other and your respective families and friends, sexual compatibility is also one of the pillars that glues your union together.
Singer goes as far to say that couples who don’t make their sex life the top of their priority list are often the couples that don’t make it the long haul or end up getting divorced. Without having a harmonious — and ahem, sexy — bed to come back to, no matter your stressful day or the tough argument you battled, your relationship can’t find it’s centre and home base. “A satisfying sex life helps couples bond. Guys — it just takes a bit of patience and some communication to be a good lover,” Singer says.
And putting both of your erotic needs front-and-centre ensures not only that the sexual experiences will be joyful ones, but that you’ll have sex more frequently. “When she is satisfied, then she will want to come back for more, it was a pleasurable experience for her. And when a man is able to satisfy his partner is gratifying for him as well knowing that she gets pleasure from him.”